SECRETS TO KEEP HAPPY & HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS

When we hear the words loyalty, trust, respect, communication, sacrifice, compromise suddenly an impression comes into our mind that is LOVE and healthy relationships.

 A person in the world is incomplete when his relationship with his loved one is unhealthy. Your relation plays a significant part in your life & so does your partner. Hence, it is important to have successful & healthy relationships in your life. In this article, we will see secrets to make your happy & healthy relationship.

Healthy relationships always involve honesty, trust, respect, compassion, affection, open communication and, true love between partners. It also involves compromises & sacrifices. 

True love is an important part of a healthy relationship. True love is always unconditional which means you love your partner despite knowing their flaws and without expecting anything in return from them. In a happy & healthy relationship, each partner takes an effort to make his/her spouse happy. They are equal to each other in all respects. Partners respect each other’s emotions, feelings, independence. Each partner can make their own decisions without any fear. Each one of them shares their thoughts. Partner always tries to fulfill each other’s expectations, desires, wants & needs. They think about each other’s safety & security.

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For Women 5 things a man does only if he really likes you

When a man really likes a woman, how does she know?
What are the things he does that almost always point to the fact that he is genuinely dedicated to her only?

Just as we published in an October article, there are six things a woman does for a man only if she likes him really and truly.

And now, for the women, here are the five things a man does only if he sincerely likes you.

Remembers details you tell him
Now this is not to say that when a man forgets details, he does not love you.

What this means is that due to the nature of males being less-organised and worse listeners than women, men most times forget stuff almost as soon as they are told, especially if those things are 'trivial'.
So, in the situation where a man remembers every thing... I mean, every single thing you tell him, then, almost certainly, that man does really like you.

Never makes you doubt your importance
Let the obvious be stated once again: men are naturally inclined to be polygamous.

There is a tendency in every man to want to stray, to sample more than one fruit from the tree... and with the abundance if willing women, it is usually not a hard thing to accomplish.

When a man actively reins in this tendency, and goes extra mile to prove to you in words and deeds that he wants no one else but you, best believe him.

Always there for you
Night and day, rain or sunshine, he is willing to do all he can whenever you ask. That's a sign that he really, really likes you.

Speaks of a future with you in it
When he speaks of his plans for the next six months, he mentions you in it. His plans for the next two years, you name pops up.

Even when he's talking about his plans for the next five years, he somehow manages to fit you in it, what else does that tell you, apart from the fact that he genuinely likes you.

Brags about you
In all likelihood, a very large percentage of persons aged 20 and above must have been in a relationship with at least two people.

So when a guy continually brags about you to his friends, your friends, and anyone who cares to listen that you are the best thing to ever happen to him and that he does not think there is anyone in this life that he could ever love as much as he loves you, then you just have to know that that is a guy who likes you very much.

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5 things a man does only if he really likes you

When a man really likes a woman, how does she know?
What are the things he does that almost always point to the fact that he is genuinely dedicated to her only?

Just as we published in an October article, there are six things a woman does for a man only if she likes him really and truly.

And now, for the women, here are the five things a man does only if he sincerely likes you.

Remembers details you tell him
Now this is not to say that when a man forgets details, he does not love you.

What this means is that due to the nature of males being less-organised and worse listeners than women, men most times forget stuff almost as soon as they are told, especially if those things are 'trivial'.

So, in the situation where a man remembers every thing... I mean, every single thing you tell him, then, almost certainly, that man does really like you.

Never makes you doubt your importance
Let the obvious be stated once again: men are naturally inclined to be polygamous.

There is a tendency in every man to want to stray, to sample more than one fruit from the tree... and with the abundance if willing women, it is usually not a hard thing to accomplish.

When a man actively reins in this tendency, and goes extra mile to prove to you in words and deeds that he wants no one else but you, best believe him.

Always there for you
Night and day, rain or sunshine, he is willing to do all he can whenever you ask. That's a sign that he really, really likes you.

Speaks of a future with you in it
When he speaks of his plans for the next six months, he mentions you in it. His plans for the next two years, you name pops up.

Even when he's talking about his plans for the next five years, he somehow manages to fit you in it, what else does that tell you, apart from the fact that he genuinely likes you.

Brags about you
In all likelihood, a very large percentage of persons aged 20 and above must have been in a relationship with at least two people.

So when a guy continually brags about you to his friends, your friends, and anyone who cares to listen that you are the best thing to ever happen to him and that he does not think there is anyone in this life that he could ever love as much as he loves you, then you just have to know that that is a guy who likes you very much.

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He speaks of a future with you in it, tries to make you see you are the only one... oh dear, how he loves you! 24/7 Live - Subscribe to the Pulse Newsletter! Subscribe When a man really likes a woman, how does she know? What are the things he does that almost always point to the fact that he is genuinely dedicated to her only? Just as we published in an October article, there are six things a woman does for a man only if she likes him really and truly. In case you have not read the article, you can find it in the link below. ALSO READ: 6 things a woman does only if she really likes you » And now, for the women, here are the five things a man does only if he sincerely likes you. Remembers details you tell him Now this is not to say that when a man forgets details, he does not love you. What this means is that due to the nature of males being less-organised and worse listeners than women, men most times forget stuff almost as soon as they are told, especially if those things are 'trivial'. So, in the situation where a man remembers every thing... I mean, every single thing you tell him, then, almost certainly, that man does really like you. Never makes you doubt your importance Let the obvious be stated once again: men are naturally inclined to be polygamous. There is a tendency in every man to want to stray, to sample more than one fruit from the tree... and with the abundance if willing women, it is usually not a hard thing to accomplish. When a man actively reins in this tendency, and goes extra mile to prove to you in words and deeds that he wants no one else but you, best believe him. Always there for you Night and day, rain or sunshine, he is willing to do all he can whenever you ask. That's a sign that he really, really likes you. Speaks of a future with you in it When he speaks of his plans for the next six months, he mentions you in it. His plans for the next two years, you name pops up. ALSO READ: You'd be crazy to leave a woman who does these 4 things » Even when he's talking about his plans for the next five years, he somehow manages to fit you in it, what else does that tell you, apart from the fact that he genuinely likes you. Brags about you In all likelihood, a very large percentage of persons aged 20 and above must have been in a relationship with at least two people. So when a guy continually brags about you to his friends, your friends, and anyone who cares to listen that you are the best thing to ever happen to him and that he does not think there is anyone in this life that he could ever love as much as he loves you, then you just have to know that that is a guy who likes you very much.

He speaks of a future with you in it, tries to make you see you are the only one... oh dear, how he loves you.

When a man really likes a woman, how does she know?
What are the things he does that almost always point to the fact that he is genuinely dedicated to her only?

Just as we published in an October article, there are six things a woman does for a man only if she likes him really and truly.

And now, for the women, here are the five things a man does only if he sincerely likes you.

Remembers details you tell him
Now this is not to say that when a man forgets details, he does not love you.

What this means is that due to the nature of males being less-organised and worse listeners than women, men most times forget stuff almost as soon as they are told, especially if those things are 'trivial'.

So, in the situation where a man remembers every thing... I mean, every single thing you tell him, then, almost certainly, that man does really like you.

Never makes you doubt your importance
Let the obvious be stated once again: men are naturally inclined to be polygamous.

There is a tendency in every man to want to stray, to sample more than one fruit from the tree... and with the abundance if willing women, it is usually not a hard thing to accomplish.

When a man actively reins in this tendency, and goes extra mile to prove to you in words and deeds that he wants no one else but you, best believe him.

Always there for you
Night and day, rain or sunshine, he is willing to do all he can whenever you ask. That's a sign that he really, really likes you.

Speaks of a future with you in it
When he speaks of his plans for the next six months, he mentions you in it. His plans for the next two years, you name pops up.

Even when he's talking about his plans for the next five years, he somehow manages to fit you in it, what else does that tell you, apart from the fact that he genuinely likes you.

Brags about you
In all likelihood, a very large percentage of persons aged 20 and above must have been in a relationship with at least two people.

So when a guy continually brags about you to his friends, your friends, and anyone who cares to listen that you are the best thing to ever happen to him and that he does not think there is anyone in this life that he could ever love as much as he loves you, then you just have to know that that is a guy who likes you very much.

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So many marriages are on the brink of collapse due to inadequate or lack of lovemaking. The situation is further hardened because the concerned couples live in self-denial.  Share on Facebook Share on Twitter Couples are not forthcoming when it comes to admitting the problems or challenges faced in their respective homes.

People would rather conceal their pains rather than speaking out and seeking help. One of the problems faced in marriages is the inability of the couples to be objective.

Instead of them spending quality time with each other to proffer solutions, they will be arguing blindly and passing blames.

Putting up with this attitude will only promote verbal abuse that will eventually kill the relationship. Marriage counselors often say sex is binding because it is in the actual sense of it.

Couples who are falling out should try having marathon sex and see what happens to them afterwards. Making love can help couples rebuild their lives and draw them closer.

Couples are encouraged to make love steadily in order to avoid falling out of love. Emotions are best dealt with when there is constant physical contact.

While some couples can not help living apart, those who live in the same house should never stop getting intimate with each other. In making a marriage work, couples should try as much as possible to communicate.

Being married gives you the right to explore each other sexually. You can guide your partner during lovemaking by letting them know what you think about them touching certain areas of your body.

If couples can relate well sexually without feeling shy or irritated about certain things, then keeping secrets will be odd. Being friends with your partner will give you an edge as you will be able to relate sexually and as companion.

It has been proven that couples that have sex regularly live and stay longer together.

Thought of being without each other will be weird and strange as they would have settled down with each other’s bodies. Making love regularly brings about a deeper level of communication between couples.

It is difficult getting this kind of response with someone you are not intimate with. This can help couples settle their differences fast as they will be able to operate on a different level.

In examining the causes of infidelity in the society, individuals who deprive their partners the pleasure of being intimate often drive them into the arms of other people. If you are able to satisfy your partner with sex, it will be difficult for them to have the strength to sleep with other people.

Making love regularly can leave your partner satiated and unwilling to be with other people. It will also help you to be more open with each other as you do not have to worry about your body.

However, make it your duty to stay beautiful and in shape. Watch this video to see some of the benefits of making love regularly to one’s partner:

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HOW TO AVOID ADULTERY IN YOUR MARRIAGE

Please note that you can avoid adultery. It is within your power to do it, if you really mean it.

Carelessness is one of the major cause of affair in marriage not devil in the real sense of it as many people always claim when they fall into error. So follow the following simple rules you will never fall into adultery.
1: Never make anybody of the opposite sex your best friend with whom you share intimate discussions.

2: Never be with anybody of opposite sex at the time your spouse must never know you are there.

3: Never talk evil about your spouse in the presence of anybody, they will know you are not happy in your marriage and take advantage of that by showing you fake care and give you what you lack with your Spouse and destroy you.

4: Never visit a website you will not be proud to tell your children and wife/ husband you visited.

5: Avoid keeping secrets from your spouse, AFFAIR thrive in secrecy.

6: Avoid confiding in the people of the opposite sex, there should be somebody of your sex you can talk to, don't dig the grave of your marriage with your mouth.

7: Avoid collecting unsolicited gifts and favour from opposite sex. They will ask for sex in return they are not Father Christmas.

8: Avoid thinking that anybody is better than your husband or wife you don't know what their spouses are enduring at home,what you are seeing outside is just a show biz don't be deceived. Grass is only greener in the other compound because it is far from you.

9: Divert all your sexual fantasy towards your spouse. He or she is planted in to your life to satisfy you and keep you holy.

10: Always remember that whatever every woman or man has in his or her body, your spouse has it too and they are not different from each other, it is only faces that are different it is the same package.

11: deal with any sexual thoughts that is not directed towards your spouse, kill it before it kills you. Sexual error do not begin in the bedroom,it begins in the heart.

12: Before traveling have sex with your spouse and put your mind to it that you will not have sex until you come back, that decision may safe your life and destiny.

13: Men, avoid looking at the front and back side of ladies and imagine what is there, it is stupid, childish­ and dirty to do that, that is what is called lust, what is there is not different from what your spouse has, please don't be stupid sir.

14: Walk in company with good and Godly men/women if you keep company with adulterer you will become adulterous.

15: Discuss your sexual desire with your spouse and let it be met at home, don't hunt for something that will hunt you later and hurt you deeply tomorrow, your wife/ husband has the best, get it at home.

16: fill your heart with the word of God always, this will not give lust a chance in your mind.

17: Always count the cost of adultery, don't just look at the pleasure, look at the pain, loss of integrity, how you will hurt your wife/­husband, children, friends and above all GOD the almighty.

18: Always remember that the enjoyment, pleas­ure and the thrills that is in sex is just 8 seconds or less, it can not be more than that but its repercussions can last for eternity. Why trading eternity for 8 seconds, is there wisdom in that?
*BE FAITHFUL TO YOUR SPOUSE AND YOU WILL BE GLAD YOU DID*.

19: Pray regularly for your Spouse and your marriage. It is well.

God bless your marriage (Home).

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Flirty questions to ask a new girlfriend or crush

Here are questions you should consider asking a woman, so as to get an idea of what works for her, and what doesn't.

When you meet a new woman, you enter a phase where understanding is non-existent, or only just starting to bud.

At this stage, dates and conversations might be a bit awkward as both of you do not really know the boundaries of the other person and what they find offensive.

As a man, however, there is an unsaid rule binding you, some sort of expectation in the mind of several women, that you will be good enough to keep them engaged, and ensure the conversation never winds down or become boring.

[This is not to say women are meant to be boring and monosyllabic in their responses, though.]

How do you relate with her in a gentlemanly manner, but still retain that sexual, flirty edge in the conversation?

Asking each of these questions during your discussions could do the trick for you.

1. What did you think when you first saw me?

2. What’s your ideal romantic date?
3. What’s your biggest turn-on?
4. What’s your favorite place to be kissed?
5. Do you engage in dirty talk? Do you just like hearing it, or you actually do say dirty things, too??
6. Would you rather be considered sexy or smart?
7. Which feature of me do you think is the best?
8. What’s your favorite part of a man’s body?
Be careful to tactically infuse the questions in your conversations, and not just fire them all at once.
She'll most likely suspect you crammed it from somewhere, and that's not cool.

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ADVICE TO 50-YEARS OLD AND OLDER

ADVICE TO 50-YEARS OLD and OLDER.

Because none of us have many years to live, and we can't take along anything when we go, so we don't have to be too thrifty.

Spend the money that should be spent, enjoy what should be enjoyed, donate what you are able to donate, but don't leave all to your children or grandchildren, for you don't want them to become parasites who are waiting for the day you will die!!

DON'T WORRY about what will happen after we are gone, because when we return to dust, we will feel nothing about praises or criticisms. The time to enjoy the worldly life and your hard earned wealth will be over!

DON'T WORRY too much about your children, for children will have their own destiny and should find their own way. Don't be your children's slave. Care for them, love them, give them gifts but also enjoy your money while you can. Life should have more to it than working from the cradle to the grave!!

DON'T EXPECT too much from your children. Caring children, though caring, would be too busy with their jobs and commitments to render much help.

Uncaring children may fight over your assets even when you are still alive, and wish for your early demise so they can inherit your properties and wealth.

Your children take for granted that they are rightful heirs to your wealth; but that you have no claims to their money.

50-year olds, don't trade in - your health for wealth by working yourself to an early grave, because your money may not be able to buy you good health.

When to stop making money, and how much is enough ?
(A HUNDRED thousand, One million, ten million,One billion )?
Out of thousand hectares of good farm land, you can consume only three quarts (of rice) daily; out of a thousand mansions, you only need eight square meters of space to rest at night.

So, as long as you have enough food and enough money to spend, that is good enough. You should live happily. Every family has its own problems.

Just DO NOT COMPARE with others for fame and social status and see whose children are doing better etc., but challenge others for happiness, health, enjoyment, quality of life and longevity.
DON'T WORRY about things that you can't change because it doesn't help and it may spoil your health.

You have to create your own well-being and find your own place of happiness.
As long as you are in good mood and good health, think about happy things, do happy things daily and have fun in doing, then you will pass your time happily every day.

One day passes WITHOUT happiness, you will lose one day.
One day passes WITH happiness and then you gain one day.


In good spirit, sickness will cure;
In a happy spirit, sickness will cure faster;
in high and happy spirits, sickness will never come.

With good mood, suitable amount of exercise, always in the sun, vacriety of foods, reasonable amount of vitamin and mineral intake, hopefully you will live another 20 or 30 years of healthy life of pleasure.
- ABOVE ALL -
Learn to cherish the goodness around... and FRIENDS........... They all make you feel young and "wanted"... without them you are surely to feel lost !!
Wishing you all the best for the years to come.

Please share this with all your friends who are 50 plus and those who will be 50 plus after some time and also with your children.
One thing that is left out is that you should serve God with your whole heart and obey His commandments.

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Infidelity You can remain with a partner who cheated on you, here's how

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As always, the stance remains that cheating is bad and no one deserves it.
Sadly, this has still not stopped the occurrences of cheating and infidelty.

Upon discovery of this disloyalty, the cheated partner is faced with a question - do I stay, or do I leave this cheating piece of trash?

Perhaps you are that stage, and you wish to stay with that partner because of the deep-seated love you have for them in your heart, here is how to go about it.

Don’t disregard the infidelity
You might be tempted to act as if nothing happened because that way, you avoid hearing the details of how your partner actually did the cheating.

It also feels less painful if you take that route, but if you do, your bitterness and anger will only worsen.

It is actually better to break the relationship than staying in it and pretending nothing happened.
It happened, and you have to face it as some point.

Confront your partner with the issue, and trash it out. Even if you eventually end up leaving the relationship, you do not leave with the unneeded baggage of unsaid words and unexpressed pain and anger.

Don’t blame yourself
No matter how smooth that cheating partner is with his or her words, you should never be beaten into thinking it is your fault you were cheated on.

It is never your fault that your partner chose infidelity instead of communicating their needs with you or actually ending the relationship.

Don’t seek revenge
Don’t go on social media to rant, don’t give in to that voice telling you to trash their car, or calling them out at their place if work.

It might momentarily feel good, but in the long run, it speaks volumes of your character, and really, you will regret the move afterwards.

As Michelle Obama recently said, “when they go low, [you] go high”
Don’t keep bringing up the issue
Yes, she cheated on you, but you have chosen to forget it and remain in the relationship. Therefore, avoid bringing up the subject every time you have a misunderstanding.

You always have the option of breaking up a relationship after discovering that someone cheated on you; that you choose to stay means you are willing to move on from that glitch and make the relationship work.

Repeatedly beating them with the stick of their past errors will never get that relationship moving towards complete healing, and it will be infinitely better to just break up and move on to someone else, instead of making that your partner feel miserable all the time.

Don’t hurry through the healing process
You will not forget easily, of course, and that is OK. To be cautious and distrustful is fine, given the circumstance.

But you must try your best to allow the trust redevelop. It will be slow and gradual, and you must let it come naturally.
Once bitten, twice shy.

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